ryanbirdgara:

Anyways if ur cis or like new to the whole genderqueer scene, one thing to keep in mind is to just. Take other people’s word. On their own identity.

Like if they tell u they’re a certain gender or they prefer certain pronouns, that’s literally it. There’s nothing left for you to figure out, unless they end up telling you more later on. They don’t have to prove their identity and it is no one’s job to constantly reaffirm it.