ahhh so I just told my friend that I’ve been in love with her for a few months, and she said she also is interested in me, so we have a date planned for next week! which is exciting? but I’m also just worried about showing her how much I like her too soon. the beginning phase of relationships is so stressful, and we’re both really anxious, I think. any advice on new relationships and how to traverse them? thank you!!

dresdoodles:

I’ve only ever started two relationships with gals so I’m not an expert or anything! She could be just as excited as you are. 

You could always give her sort of a disclaimer before the date, like, hey, let me know if I’m going too fast okay? Or hey, if you need me to tone it down, I will, okay? And just make a conscious effort to communicate and respect that she might not open up to you right away. But who knows, she might surprise you! 😊