šItās nice to have the blog back for sure, I just wish they would at least acknowledge there was a problem. Plus, thereās still plenty of nsfw artists with their blogs down and I donāt think most of them will be coming back.
So sweet! Iāve been getting similar asks like these. Questions like these from folks who said they only open up tumblr (or twitter) to see my work and itās crazy! Itās truly flattering and Iām very thankful. š
No relationships are effortless, they all take work and compromise.Ā When you add more to the mix it can make things more complicated, and itās not for everyone!Ā And then sometimes people who never expected to be poly find themselves in a situation where it seems the best fit for all.Ā No two poly relationships are the same, so what works in some may not work in others.Ā Sorry that yours wasnāt great. š¦
I donāt think Bob would suffer!Ā In this AU, I think the OT3 works because rather than one of them feeling alienated (as Bob might have it it was literally any other ex of Helenās) theyāre all coming together already having this framework of having cared and taken care of each other for a long time. Ā Itās not hard to fall back into that when they are all together again.Ā Helen/Gail were close before meeting Bob, Gail and Bob got to be really close while Helen was away for college, and then (after some initial hiccups) Gail got Helen and Bob to be on good terms too.Ā Then after herĀ āaccidentā they eventually got married and lived together over 14 years, which is much longer than the time Helen/Gail were together.
I think if Bob hadnāt been close to Gail before sheĀ ādied,ā he might be a lot more uneasy about eventually involving her in his marriage.Ā But he met Gail before meeting Helen, and (at least back then) he liked her a lot more than Helen.Ā š (The feeling was mutual for Helen, lol.)Ā Of course, so much has changed for all of them since then.Ā It would be a weird adjustment, like meeting an old friend⦠for the first time.Ā They have so many shared memories but also so much to catch each other up on.