seashellronan:

gentle reminder for my bi/pan friends that its okay to have a prefence or for the amount of attraction you feel to whatever genders to not be equal. being attracted to more than one gender doesnt mean you are half gay and half straight, its complicated and its personal to you. 

youre still bi/pan if you lean mainly towards one gender and only really notice other genders when you meet someone you connect with.
youre still bi/pan if you feel equal attraction but in completely different ways 
youre still bi/pan if the attraction you feel is 60/40 or 20/80 etc
youre still bi/pan if you go through stages of leaning one way or another. 

My point is you dont need to analyse it, just feel what you feel and dont try to police it because its all good and its all normal