rufflesstuff:

You know what I want out of my kissing scenes?

A asking B if they want to.

B replying “Yes! Do you?”

A also replying, enthusiastically and unambiguously, “Yes.”

Then the two of them kiss. But it doesn’t stop there, oh no!

They pause every once in a while, ask the other how they’re doing, how they’re feeling, permission to take things up a notch, or asking the other to turn it down, stop something they’re doing, or to do something all over again.

And when they ask, both A and B oblige them, happily and without complaint. And if one of them is uncomfortable for any reason–like they’re in the backseat, and a seatbelt buckle is digging into their hip, or they just don’t feel up to it anymore–they stop, then ask if they want to continue, go back to what they were doing, or just stop and do something else entirely.

Because A and B both love each other very much, and the other person’s comfort and well-being matters more to them than getting to the act itself.

In short: I want my kissing scenes to be consensual and considerate as fuck.